Pursuit to Paradise
Mary Anne Marlowe’s got gumption and she
has been willing to demonstrate it throughout her adult life. Her recent
autobiographical book, “Pursue to Paradise” demonstrates just how resourceful
and resilient she truly is as it recounts her decade of living in Costa Rica by
herself and as a single mom, battling for custody of her son, Chaz. The book
opens with her pulling the plug on her life in Toronto, Canada
and freeing herself from the “herd mentality” as she puts it, then relocating
to Guanacaste, specifically Playa Flamingo, on basically nothing but her
wherewithal, her “sandal strap budget”, again in her words.
The book is divided into nine chapters,
beginning in 2001, with her arrival in Guanacaste as she immediately demonstrates
her ability to adapt to her surroundings and situations. Within no time at all,
she has a place to live and a small restaurant called The Hillside Café (for
those here long enough to remember it) and is making and soliciting her
homemade fragrant candles on the side. She’s figured out a niche with her wholesome
style of cooking and canvassing for candle clientele, while she battles with
her son’s custody with his father, for whom she has not one single good word
throughout the book.. In the meantime, she gains notoriety from the locals for
being an early riser, a beachcomber with the ability to locate discarded goods
and “natural gifts”, such as driftwood and shells, and transform them all into
something useful, without cost. She also begins single-handedly manufacturing
and distributing ice cream at a wholesale scale, an amazing feat.
Throughout the book, Mary Anne discovers
more and more about herself as she spends more time in Costa Rica and discovers more about
this place as well. She finds herself becoming more and more healthy,
physically and mentally, and does find a way to reunite with Chaz here in Costa Rica.
I have to say that throughout the book, she seems to have bad luck with her
relationships with men. She also pulls no punches about those men’s ultimate
selfishness and general bad behavior. But she is also surrounded by good
friends she has accumulated, quirky as they might be, who are continually there
to lend a hand for her.
Her journey in Costa
Rica eventually takes her to Lake Arenal
when she decides to relocate and try new approaches to making a living, being a
mom, and being in a relationship. The most amazing factors I found in the book
were Mary Anne’s focus, her unwavering determination and her ability to make
her goals materialize. She has fallen in love with Costa Rica and the style of life
here and now sees her calling as passing these lessons on to others. I wish her
all the luck in the world.
I was lucky enough to get hold of an
advance copy to read for this review, but by the time this article is
published, it should be ready for purchase by the general public at pusuetoparadise@gmail.com or at the
Jaime Peligro book store in Playa Tamarindo.